Maybe if you try looking at it like a sickness...and even maybe when someone tells you something, get that sort of look on your face...like it is a disease

you know

that

that you for sharing that you saw their liver fall out of their body...I know they are dying and you sharing the actual process is painful for me...it is enough that I know

that kind of thing????

I pretended like I knew all the crap that my ex was doing...someone would tell me some shenanigan or other and I would say, yes, I know. I def. did not know all the details but it took the wind out of their sails....they were telling me to get a reaction. I didn't give them one...they stopped when they never got one from me, no matter what they told me