Reflection

[GAL Man]

OK



Lost it tonight with W



First time losing it, but found my balls, and wasn't going to be treated
like this and disrespected



Basically



Found out on Friday that D14 was at her friends and that S12 was at our MF,
no communication with me or asked if I would have them.



Received text from W sat just saying that the kids were with friends as she
was at work (over the weekend!!)



Turns out they were there Fri, and Sat nights and all day Sunday



Waited for 5pm when they were due back, no show, D14 calls and asks for me
to pick her up as W wouldn't be back till very late. Called S12 who said he
didn't know what was happening and when he was coming home.



No communication to me when they were coming back



So



I called W and let her have it, that she was just palming them off, didn't
ask me if I would have them, and didn't even have the decency to tell me
when they were coming back and what was happening. W said the kids knew and
should have told me, I said that they were in her care and not the
responsibility of the kids to tell me, they didn't even know.



W said that she text me to tell me, I stated that it was only to tell me
where they were etc, nothing else



W said I don't return her emails and text anyway, to which I said "what do
you expect, I don't want to speak to you or see you" and left it there. W
know why this is!



What must the kids be thinking, we only have them 7 days each, and now W is
palming them off each week for half this time..



Followed up the conversation with the following text



To confirm, kids are swapped over every Sunday at 6pm



I feel disrespected that you could not communicate what was happening today,
and again point the blame to the kids, they didn't even know what was
happening.



You may choose not to spend your time with them for your own reasons and
palm them out, that's your choice, but I will have them at any extra
opportunity I can



3hrs later I get this response



Are you around to meet at Starbucks at 6pm tomorrow? As I have a few things
I need to discuss with U



Now, I don't want to meet up with her, as she is only going to tell me that
there is OM. I will think about sending her a text back in the morning
stating this.