I ended up going to the wedding alone and it was very difficult as I have still not told my friends that she has moved out. I made up a story that a family emergency came up. I really hope she is not seeing someone else, it would be absolutely devastating to me. The cell phone usage has been kind of secretive, but I've never looked at her records below and don't really plan on spying on her at this point.
Any thoughts on if there could be a sliver of hope as she said that she'd go to one marriage counseling session with me? I had coffee with her this morning and she still brings up the administrative matters around the divorce, and when I told her I wish she'd keep an open mind when we visit the counselor, she said "I want you to be realistic".
Any thoughts on how to get the most "bang for my buck" in this one session? I feel like I have one chance to make it better. We have spent quite a bit of time apart with both of us traveling, so I'm not sure that GAL'ing will help too much, but I'll try it out. I think a 180 for us is actually spending time together as sad as that sounds!
I'm keeping hope up until she actually follows through with moving forward with her attorney. Until then, if you guys have any additional tips, I'd really appreciate it.
