SA - thank you - but I get so much from others, both on this thread and from reading what others write on theirs. This board is inspirational.

Although the MLCers share many similarities, as you know, each makes their own journey. However, 2 years seems quite soon for him to admit that he misses anything about you [even if he thinks about you a lot, which I am told many of them do]

It is a long long journey for them and for us. You will be fine, and he might well be, so follow your instincts.

I think initially there is a glamour for them but it soon wears thin and they go on pretending all is well, and demonize us to convince themselves that we, not them are the problem . . . .

The trouble for so many is pride and admitting that they might have got it all so terribly wrong.