KML, the reason for my post above, as light as it was, is the truth is... we are all human... there's no "mountains moving and bells ringing"...
THAT stuff... happens IN US... no one else CAUSES this FOR us...
If you DB this... just keep your eyes open and look for consistency in actions...
In the end... we're all just another warm body...
What are you looking for in a long term R? What will you tolerate to have companionship? What are the deal breakers? How will you know he's a good guy?
Take your time... trust yourself... check yourself for blind, infatuation...
