So I did good last night by not R talking. My goal is exactly what you stated, to have lighthearted open, more frequent non R conversation with my W where I do the listening, instead of the talking. My W did do about 70% of the talking while I listened. I also tried to make eye contact which is tough in post twilight. The reason I need to stimulate convos is because she is always preoccupied with texting on cell or watching tv to talk. So I think, as her trust builds, she will initiate the convos more.
Me 45 W 34 W.A.W. 3K. D11 S9 D6 M 12 y T 13 y Bomb drop 02/22/2011 2nd written bomb (Letter bomb) 05/31/2011 Affair (A bomb) revealed 07/03/2011
