Yes it is. Do I think he's numbing his pain? Absolutely. Do I care? A little...
I'm more about you finding things overwhelming.
Overwhelming when stared at as a whole. But it is NOT unmanageable, in parts.
So let's break it down in parts. What parts?
Days...today...tonight. MAYBE tomorrow.
For NOW, what can you create that would bring some laughter or joy or fun,
into your life or the kids'?
Let's do it. Seriously. So, check THAT.
Also... never underestimate the healing power of water.
Warm baths, hot tubs if you have one, showers, etc. Embrace them. One time I recall hearing a commercial about "clean water" in a 3rd world country just as I was about to go lay in my bath. Geez, I felt so grateful!
Take care of yourself.
If you can, get a massage. God it's nice to be touched, (sometimes more so when it's not about sex if you KWIM.)
Be good to you.
Life gets better. I promise.
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