I think when I no longer care about what he's doing, I'll know I've detached. It's a process .. and this time next month, I'll feel better than now .. and every month after that.
And eventually, when I'm in another relationship, with whomever that might be, I will be a better person and a better partner.
Is there ever a point where you are able to completely not care? Just wondering.... Hang in there a girl. I'm in your corner.