Good thought, Donna. Believe me, I can overthink this to death. I have a whole list of reasons to do nothing with this friend. I need to chill out and just enjoy what we do together now and let it be. As far as V, she was a HK Chinese and they are obsessed with career and success. Our M went down the toilet when she took a stressful management position and decided to take her Masters at the same time. That was four years of hell. She was cooked but her career was more important than her marriage, that's the bottom line. I also live and work in a very ethnic community, predominantly Asian. So, the choices are largely Asian in everyday encounters. Asian women are very gentle, they tend to let you lead...and are darn cute! As far as my "Choser" I don't think I'm choosing Muslim...beats me where that comes from, coincidence I guess. My past gf's have been 50% my culture and 50% other cultures (Chinese, Palestinian...etc). Hey, the computer hasn't crashed!
