Lanzo,
I think I get it, and I have been working on it--creating a more masculine-feminine balance. It depends on the woman, but I think women want a masculine-feminine blend. I have been too imbalanced on the feminine side, all of my life. It's never too late to become what we should have been years ago. My W has commented on the increased tone in my body. She's slacked off on exercise, but I've gotten back on track since the car accident.

I also think that the men who are lacking in the "feminine" skills (listening, self-expression, artistic activity) are the ones who get D. I don't want to lose my softer skills, but balance them with strength, to increase my versatility.

CL

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching