I think Mr. Big Lots could be telling the truth; that said, I know that if a guy is "into" you he will move heaven and earth to get to you.
I've been dating lots of men and there are some who call, text, whatever and that shows interest. If you're not hearing from them, they aren't into you and it is time to move on.
Know yourself, communicate effectively, and compromise carefully. You are a prize and absolutely worth it!
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10