Just discovered affair please help

[Jen_Jam]

Hey IP

I've calmed down a bit from last night. I think he's still feeling guitly/bad/not wanting to talk and that's fine for now. Let's focus on a positive here - he's agreed to go to MC.

My advice now would be to arrange that, let go of the rest of your requests for the time being and avoid ALL R talks outside of MC.

My H (when he was a WAS) would not talk to me AT ALL, but as soon as in MC it all came out. I think hang on in there, work on yourself (poss low self esteem?) and let the rest go to MC. I know it sounds cliched but you ARE stronger than you give yourself credit for. Pull back, wait for MC and mainly work on YOU.

Take care

JJ xxxxx