Need Advice, Encouragement or Whatever (long)

[MHL]

Hey David,

Not much time here so I will just say a couple of quick things,

You are doing pretty good from what you have posted.

And when i say you have done good I mean that YOU are doing good for you.......You sound pretty detached and in control.

I am glad you are concerned about not bashing your wife.......that shows that your actions are driven by love and not jealousy, hurt, spite, anger or any of those other very normal emotions. Good job!!!!

You are looking for reasons why your wife might have changed all of a sudden and while what I am about to suggest may better explain it.........the reason does not change your course of action.

It sounds on the surface that your W is in a Mid Life Crisis. There are many resources in the MLC forum and you should read around down there and see if anything strikes a chord.

If it is MLC....your actions and words or no different, however it is a different beast all-together, it is ugly and lasts alot longer.

You know your wife best. You make the call, you will find that the support there can be very helpful.

Hope this helps.

Cheers