Are you truly done with your H in the sense that if he wanted to come back and R that you would not even consider it?
I'm also getting very close to that 2 year mark. I understand the loneliness of not having someone who loves and cares for you to share your life with.
A 2 year MLC would be considered pretty short in duration. You seemed to have some positives with your last interaction with him. I'm sure he's still processing that. Time is so different for them than for us. I heard this many times and have seen it with my H.
I guess my point is is that MLC takes time. Your H is not done yet. If you truly believe it's time for you to move on then by all means do so.
Why send a letter to him right now that if he bothers to answer back would have the potential to cause you more pain?
