And it goes on……


Received a fb message from her oldest friend last night (the one I have mentioned before that W hasn’t spoken to for a while) This friend of W’s was also our chief bridesmaid, and is godmother to D14

Message was:

Ohh dear, (W name) has deleted me off fb!

Then another message

I’ve text her and she says she didn’t delete me, I deleted her! Really not sure what is going on, it all seem really odd, bcz I would (as I did) ask why I was deleted, so why she not do that to me.

This follows deleting all of my friends from her fb, then my SIL (which W again said she didn’t delete SIL, but SIL deleted her, which I know is not the case)

So typical avoidance of anyone who does not support her cause, typical MLC


An hour ago I receive a text from W (why now, who knows)

Hi, just wanted to let you know I’m working today, S12 is at MF, D14 is at her friends.

Now, part of me wants to not reply, but part of me says it’s about my kids and I have been missing them, so I want to reply with:

Thanks, however why did you not ask me first yesterday to have them last night and today, I am their father. I have not seen them for over a week as I swapped a previous weekend. I will not swap again, but will have them additional whenever possible.


I think I need more space and distance to not get involved with all this


Me - 37
W - 38
D - 14
S - 12
Together - 16
Married - 12
Bomb - April 13, 2011
W moved out - May 13, 2011

The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more