I've been on Newcomers for awhile but since D was final a week ago thought I should head over here. I didn't post much mostly lurked. Its just been over a year since ex dropped the bomb. He moved out 8 months ago and filed in March. August 5 was the final divorce hearing. Its been a hell of a year. I told him up until the end I did not want a D but if it went through then I was DONE. So now on to the next stage of my life. Trying to get out of the family home into a new place. My ex is living in the apartment over the garage and we share a driveway. He is going to refi the house and buy me out hopefully by the beginning of September. I have pets (large dog and stupid old crazy cat) The strangest thing he is doing now is he fought me on how much I would get in the settlement but after we agree on an amount now he offers to give me more. How do I respond to that?
