I think it seems to be a thing unique to Canadians. The few I know in this situation seem to be of the mindset that unless I am wanting to remarry or am in a serious relationship, why divorce.
That being said, is there some other reason that you stay married to Voldermort? Are you deep down, still hoping for a reconciliation? Is she still involved with her lady friend? Are you ready to move forward? Just asking.
Kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory