If you ask a WAS if they are having an A, they will answer in a number of ways, but most likely:
No - because they are not
No - because they are
and then there's the deflect, like saying it is because of the LBS, which is pretty much the same as saying "No"...
Another general rule here is, "Expect the worst, hope for the best"...
If there is an OM... it will come out in the wash, eventually...
Right now, it would be a really good idea to read through DR and take a whole bunch of deep breathes and start doing the work to find yourself again, GAL, do 180s, and become the best man you can be, that only a fool would leave...
There is never any guarantees, but if you work on yourself and get yourself together, no matter the outcome of your M, you have the greatest opportunity to move forward and create what you want in your life.
