Originally Posted By: Fate has come
We had friends, family, vacations, money, had parties, were invited to parties...I was really living my dream. WOW.....guess she wasn't.....not sure how it could have been much better for me anyway....I was very content....seemingly blindly content that is smile

So where do I go from here......how long is the hurt going to last? I really appreciate all the comments too.
Funny when I read all the other blogs......i only wish I was given the chance to save my M.....I would have done anything and everything.

Tell me about it. I'm not saying my marriage was at all perfect but I thought we were fine. I would have never thought he was unhappy. I never got the chance to fix what was wrong either. I don't know what to tell you but I understand completely.

and thanks zero12......for the insight....from a woman......you know she never said anything.....I am a pretty good listener too, I listened and she wasn't talking I guess.....you know she never told anyone until after she left. Good actress my Family says.....she had everyone fooled.
HMMMMM.....life is crazy....go figure....


M44 H41
M20 T23
3 older teens
Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy"
EA Nov 09 w/coworker
Another PA in Mar 10
I Filed Apr 10
D final Dec 10