Alone, just read your story...I'm sorry you are going through this. Unfortunately everything you have shared is so similar to most of the stories here; it is as if your H has become a completely different person.
So...how did the dinner / movie evening go for you?
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS