I say give him the benefit of the doubt one time...after that, question

and

I slept with Cori after talking to him and getting to know him for several months...we were friends 1st and I was dating another guy who was much more into me than I was into him (I specifically said I was not ready for a serious relationship and wanted to date other people...apparently honesty wasn't his thing)

anyway

sleeping with him pretty quickly didn't sabotage our relationship

we are quite happy and domestic and well matched and happy smile

yay us!!!


I say KML
tell the truth
get to know someone and decide if you want to sleep with that person
that is the difference in relationship and booty call (in my mind)

I have had my wild days and my fair share of booty calls and basically I wanted to have sex with them (or without them I guess but with them was preferable)

but

Cori is the first person I ever wanted to have sex with and it mattered that it was him

make sense?

nothing wrong with wanting sex
nothing wrong with having sex
just be honest about the sex you are having

(but that could be my hippy parents talking) smile