Maybe I am missing something...seriously b/c I don't get this.
She reaches out with some small talk and you, Denver resist the recall of the name (who cares if YOU remember them? Your dad knew them or they knew HIM.) And she IS reaching out. Why can't you be busy but polite and end the conversation like the rest of us did when they'd call or text?
I don't get it. THESE texts are not coming at midnight and they aren't mean or weird.
Folks, tell me how ignoring them helps.
I don't get it.
25, I agree with you. It only helps if he will be honest with her and tell her one more time........
W, I love and miss you and I want to save our marriage, we obviously get along and can be friendly. I know you are unsure and you are undecided......I accept that. Please know that because, I do love you and I do miss you and I want nothing more than to be married to you, it hurts me immensely that you are undecided about committing to work on us. Because it hurts I can not have casual contact with you.....it just hurts plain and simple. I am going to take some time and some space and give you the same.......if you decide that you want to commit to working on us then let me know and I will be glad to sit down and talk with you about what that would look like. Until that time please understand that I am not ignoring you I am just trying to avoid further pain.
