Now, here is what scares me: she doesn't seem to look or act like she is in "crisis mode" like she did a few months ago. There are a few things that I notice, but she doesn't seem to be the fruit loop like she once was.
Can I ask what scares you about this?^^^^
MLCer's settle into life, just as the LBS does. The initial high of getting their freedom wears off. She may be finding the grass isn't greener and the same mundane things she had to deal with while you were together are still there.
This doesn't mean she's coming to the end of her MLC. Just that the manic actions have settled down.
It is interesting that she goes to the courthouse with you and has none of what she needed to complete the transaction of deeding the house to you. It just goes to show how messed up she still is.
It sounds like you handled lunch well. You really do need to stop focusing on her though. You still are not detached. Your posts are still all about her.
Really would like to hear about you and what you're doing and working on.
Since you have to meet up with her again on Tues. if she asks you to lunch again, why don't you thank her but tell her you already have plans...leave her wondering.
