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Re: Every project has an end LITB #2176712 08/11/11 02:51 PM
Joined: Mar 2011 Posts: 932 Pennsylvania T Telemark Member
Telemark Member T Joined: Mar 2011 Posts: 932 Pennsylvania	KD, I'm thinking of you today. Thanks for all of your insight. You're a good man. H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS

Re: Every project has an end LITB #2176724 08/11/11 03:23 PM
Joined: Feb 2011 Posts: 2,748 Cincinnati J jbnati Member
jbnati Member J Joined: Feb 2011 Posts: 2,748 Cincinnati	KD, I am thinking of you as well, and I've been praying for you. BITS Me:46 / W:47 / M:19 / T:21 / S13 Bomb#1: 5/8/2008 MC: 5/2008 - 4/2010 Bomb#2: 2/10/2011 W moves out 5/7/2011 'With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.' - Matt. 19:26

Re: Every project has an end jbnati #2176765 08/11/11 05:11 PM
Joined: Jan 2011 Posts: 1,239 Ohio J JustStunned Member
JustStunned Member J Joined: Jan 2011 Posts: 1,239 Ohio	KD, Luck, peace and smooth sailing, err paddling. Seriously, praying for you. BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27 You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill

Re: Every project has an end JustStunned #2176766 08/11/11 05:13 PM
Joined: Jul 2011 Posts: 108 D dearme Member
dearme Member D Joined: Jul 2011 Posts: 108	Thanks for all of your advice and insight. Hope this day goes as well as it can. Sending you all the best. H: 41 W: 35 M: 9 years T: 10 years S: 9 D: 7 ILYBINILWY & "I want a divorce": 6/22/2011 Piecing: 10/2011 Still going strong as of 4/2013

Re: Every project has an end dearme #2176767 08/11/11 05:15 PM
Joined: Jan 2011 Posts: 672 MI L LearningPatience Member
LearningPatience Member L Joined: Jan 2011 Posts: 672 MI	KD, you realize that if you stopped posting here, traffic would be down around 50%. Not trying to guilt you, just sayin'... Hope it all works out for you, here or not! Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011

Re: Every project has an end LearningPatience #2177287 08/12/11 07:38 PM
Joined: Feb 2011 Posts: 1,905 Northern California & ♪CS♪ Member
♪CS♪ Member & Joined: Feb 2011 Posts: 1,905 Northern California	Hey KD I checked some of your other threads and TBH I am having a hard time piecing it all together. If you have some time. At some point. Maybe you could post a summary of where you are with things. Hope you are well. BITS Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.

Re: Every project has an end ♪CS♪ #2177375 08/13/11 01:06 AM
Joined: Mar 2011 Posts: 4,866 Likes: 1 Canoe'k-land ~ ~ kd ~ OP Member
OP ~ kd ~ Member ~ Joined: Mar 2011 Posts: 4,866 Likes: 1 Canoe'k-land	ok... so I'm trying to use this thread for only summary and questions that I'm looking for more immediate responses... right now, synopsis is: + I'm feeling pretty good... and + and not really feel down... ~~~~~~~~ Where I am at... what's the plan? + start paving the road home... + stop aggressively pursuing D... + work with W on a more regular basis to arrange more... acceptable co-parenting and visits... ~~~~~~~~~~~~ I'm very confident in my emotional state atm. Yes, I've had a couple of pity parties, but not specifically around my W. More around missing my kids... Anything that has to do with OM or her "secret life", I have pretty much no emotional reaction. I am going to change my boundary from dark to dim... I am not prepared yet to do "group/family events" together, we'll see what the holidays bring... I had been up and down on the D thing... but now... I'm OK with not doing the paperwork. It could be harmful to the kids. Unless my W wants it, then she can have it...

Re: Every project has an end ~ kd ~ #2178939 08/17/11 08:08 PM
Joined: Mar 2011 Posts: 4,866 Likes: 1 Canoe'k-land ~ ~ kd ~ OP Member
OP ~ kd ~ Member ~ Joined: Mar 2011 Posts: 4,866 Likes: 1 Canoe'k-land	OK, anyone who's been following my sitch, if I could grab your attention and some possible advice on how to handle this sitch that my W just WON'T GIVE UP ON... Guh... It's in my new thread in seperated: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2178934 thx in advance...

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