Wife no longer in love with me

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Thanks guys.
I know its not about being better than her and winning, i guess it's just hard not to feel that way at times as a way of thinking 'stuff her, I don't deserve this, and I will prevail', which is a lot of the feedback my friends give me.
The most frustrating thing is I feel like with this forum and my DB coach, I know who I want to be and how I want to interact with people and the relationship I want - I just don't think I will ever get the chance to do this with the one I truly love.
I really appreciate your comments and thoughts.