Well, I loved your ideas thank you so much! My H on the other hand wasn't quite so keen!
So, I said to him I've been thinking of a few things that would maybe help me feel that he is serious about how much he loves me and wants to work things out....his response to writing OW a no contact letter? he kind of snorted and said "be a bit difficult when I don't know how to contact her" (he doesn't know it but I know her email - I haven't used it but of course when/if he wrote such a letter we could email it but I thought it best not to divulge that I know it at this stage!)
He is happy to go to MC although doesn't see how talking to anyone can help.
the STD tests he raised his eye brows, tutted and snorted all at once!! - that was the only response I got - when I asked why he reacted like that he said "I haven't slept with anyone so why do I need tests?"
I also said I would like to change the password of his email account so that he can only access it with me present - he was not a happy bunny at all!! says I'm being sneaky and how can I call him for lying to me when I'm doing things like this!!!! (he already said I can look at it whenever I like but obviously this is open to abuse as he could delete contact from her as soon as it comes through before I look)
So....I don't know - I feel so lonely and empty and to be honest he doesn't seem to me like he can be bothered to fix this.
