it didn't work before, it aggravated things AND you got hurt/rejected
AND
you need to keep GAL...if you pursue him, that's NOT GAL...what would contacting him accomplish?
What would you say? More of the guilting?
Not Effective.
Hang in there...let him have all the independence he wants.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016