your last paragraph says it all....

as for nc, what choice do you have? More Pursuit?

You know that's bad idea b/c

it didn't work before, it aggravated things AND you got hurt/rejected

AND

you need to keep GAL...if you pursue him, that's NOT GAL...what would contacting him accomplish?

What would you say? More of the guilting?

Not Effective.

Hang in there...let him have all the independence he wants.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change