So if you collectively earned 37k p/y you are entitled to $900 a month? ... I'm just curious b/c I thought alimony was after you'd been married 7 years - but that's in our state; I never heard of "spousal support" -
I just think ... I don't know - it's hard to turn down 22K but ... do you think that would be serving you in the end? Your goal to GAL and DB and be seen as on your toes and living life and independent? I could be wrong - but that's just my take.
I'm thinking about you today. I know this is so hard. I know she's been moved out for 3 months now, but this somehow makes it more real and I think that could have been where the emotions got escalated - though, again, be in the moment. Try to see if you can smile through it a bit.
Oh, and if you think your WAW is in any way "love avoidant" - this book is HUGELY giving me insight (the one I mentioned) into my R with my WABF
