Two months with no response from her attorney? Doesn't your state have deadlines... at least requirements to hold a status conference or something?
I don't want to get your hopes up, but if she's not pushing the divorce forward, she may still be thinking. When my stbx left me the first time, and he filed for divorce, I met every deadline because I didn't want to stand between him and his freedom. He was late for every deadline, and when it was all done, he changed his mind. Sometimes it goes like that.
