Reflection

[GAL Man]

The title of my thread sums up how I am feeling right now

At first it was a reflection of a lengthy R conversation, now

something different

I must say that I am soooo proud of the way I have conducted myself over these last few months. I always thought I was a good person before, but this experience HAS actually changed me already.

I know the vets and people post all the time, saying work on yourself, 180’s, GAL etc, and at the beginning the main reason we all feel is to get S back, what can we do to influence them, show them the error of their ways etc etc etc

I WAS that person too

However, I HAVE learnt, as will others IT IS ACTUALLY ABOUT US the LBS

Before (even though I believed I was a good person) I would have reacted differently, chased, pursued, shown anger, maybe even resentfulness or bitterness. But not now

That is MY realisation, of how I HAVE actually changed already, and will continue to do so because I LOVE THIS IN ME.

Morals, beliefs and how we conduct ourselves is part of what makes us up, it is the fundamentals of which we operate from and forms us. To change these, IMHO, means we are changing for someone or something else….

that SHOULD NOT be the case, once we do this we lose respect of ourselves.


Another thing I have also realised, is that I have not changed my opinion on my M and what it would take for BOTH of us to make things work.
I have been GAL quite well with and without kids, however I FEEL that the changes in me have been the most enlightening.

I have seen many PMA phrases in the last few months, but I like mine the best LOL, Change creates opportunities


I have changed……….

I will continue to change………………

I WILL be a better rounded person for this……………… change



As in my sig, which I wrote right back at the beginning of this

The man became is changing back to the man I was, and more

The and more is life experiences, this, and how I continue to learn more about me