It will be your actions that set you on your path.
IF you see a solicitor and get the agreement drafted and sent... THEN you might want to give your W a heads up...
"I was at the L and he sent you some stuff."
NOTHING before that... because here's the thing... you might change your mind... and she'd be expecting stuff...
and maybe... just maybe... you're expecting that words might change some things...
"Could you come get the rest of your stuff..." because "I'm want to paint the room" or "I need the space."...
but... you'd better paint the room or use the space if she comes to get the stuff...
You may be all over doing what you say... the point is... the words are, to some degree... irrelevant...
Same as me telling my W that when november comes, I will be starting the D papers... it's really pointless at this time... I might... and maybe I'll wait... I don't really know... and don't feel like committing to it, atm...
