Ken
Thanks for your thoughts, only just seen your post, need to try this (No GALman, try not, do or do not, there is no try)

Kaffe
Thanks as always

I have not had any communication with W for 3 weeks now (except the brief response to her email) and will continue to do so. Obviously it would be easy to though, but that achieves nothing…..

Regarding my boundary though, I set it, and I am a man of integrity…………………….

You say actions (as it should be)

Should I see a solicitor then and just get the separation agreement drafted and sent?

That’s all it would be though, a legally binding agreement, as I have decided not to sort the house equity out until I have to do so, as this is in my best interest (so this would be when D is final, after 2 years of separation. W won’t like that)


Me - 37
W - 38
D - 14
S - 12
Together - 16
Married - 12
Bomb - April 13, 2011
W moved out - May 13, 2011

The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more