Thanks everyone. You're all top shelf.

I can feel myself getting a little better at defusing her outbursts...3 or 4 months ago I would have fired back with everything I have.

It just ticks me off that she gives me all of the "don't love you" speeches, has the EA, moves out-which straps both of us financially-and then acts like I'm the bad guy.

Which I know everyone here has put up with at one time or another.


H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
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