I'm open to suggestions!

I do NOT want this latest incident to end up with us not sleeping in the same bed as I feel that would be a big step backwards.

W is pissed - she's an injustice collector and I've just given her another one to add to her list. And yes, she has actual written lists of my injustices!

I'm trying to stay out of her way to give her time, space to hopefully cool down. I apologized two nights ago which of course she scoffed at.

What tree should I be barking up? Just keep staying out of her way as much as possible, give her space, focus on the kids, and be upbeat, confident when I am around her?


Me-44, W-38
S12, D10
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EA: 3/20/11
Bomb: 3/25/11
"I'm waiting til June to 'do something'" statement from W: 4/26/11
Still in same house, in same bed