I don't see the harm in apologizing for your words yesterday.
You are correct, it is stressful and I don't know anyone who has gone through this without feeling emotionally drained. You are doing very well at not letting her push your buttons.
Sometimes I think that's what my H is trying to do, ignore me to the point where it drives me crazy and snap and get verbal like I have in the past. I refuse to give in to it.
If it's one thing our WAS's know, is how to push our buttons.
"Everyone you meet has baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack." ¤Formerly DelinquentGurl¤