She also told me "It doesn't matter what religion you are, it's how God talks to your heart and the way you treat other people because of it. That's what's important" Wow, I liked that.
I spent break with her again this afternoon. I explicitly pointed out that we needed to watch the time! Once more she managed to get in that she has nothing to do on the weekends. I think I'm supposed to suggest something. I got some thinking to do...but in my defense, I did tell her of my plans this weekend so she knows I actually have something to do, I'm not ignoring her. I'll attempt to check in with you folks later, my home computer is on the fritz. It works when it wants.
There's lots of reasons not to go for it!LOL Here's what she said to me this afternoon, "I don't do much on the weekends, I'm alone and I don't get out much. But, I have my own room, a computer and I can play Facebook games" Damn, she's good!
After the Coffee Lady fiasco I hope you take the lessons learned. Just as a thought experiment answer the following question for yourself: "If I was to get emotionally envolved with someone of the female persuasion I would (fill in the blank) my current situation."
Is it time to take a quick view on where you want to be in life? I know that it's been a tough year but sometimes I feel that you are a bit "stuck" with Vol..I mean your estranged wife. Make no mistakes, until you cut that ribbon it's still "wife". What would you do to make yourself available emotionally to someone else? Will you keep that seemingly unwanted legal tie or not?
Tough questions on a Saturday morning, but I'm bored and about to go start my day with my youngest. A men's weekend is upon us now that the females have departed and being the sensitive men that we are we want to belch and pass wind with abandon!
I think it seems to be a thing unique to Canadians. The few I know in this situation seem to be of the mindset that unless I am wanting to remarry or am in a serious relationship, why divorce.
That being said, is there some other reason that you stay married to Voldermort? Are you deep down, still hoping for a reconciliation? Is she still involved with her lady friend? Are you ready to move forward? Just asking.
Kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
