Thank you for sharing that very well written post. I agree with all of it.
I have cycled through the blame just as I have cycled through the emotions. At the beginning I shouldered ALL of the blame. After being blamed over and over by my WAS, I began to believe it. Now I own my part of the demise of my M and realize that it was not all on me. This is likely the case for MOST of us here.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa