I really need to hear that Saffie! It's exactly WHY I came on today. Every AM I wake up and the A is the first thing that hits me and then I start to obsess. Like this AM, I was thinking how 2 summers ago we celebrated my B-day and then our anniversary, we went away for 2 wknds in the fall and had fantastic LM, we started planning a BIG family vaca.....little did I know that during all this time he was heating up and starting an A. Blows my mind sometimes. Reflecting back I can see how distant he was becoming and as the fall turned into winter, we were struggling to be connected. I asked about it and he said it was work stuff. I voiced my feelings of disconnection. I even offered a separation! After I offered to move to our cottage I went up to bed, he came into our bedroom and held me, kissed me and said he didn't know what he would do without me. He had already started the PA at that time! One confused dude, huh?


M 55 H 58 M 24 T 29
S 22,21, 19
Bomb 4/10
It (A) really isn't about you 11/2013
We all have work to do


The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.