I am new to your thread although I have been following your sitch for quite some time now. It is so similar to mine it is almost scary. I have been at this since about mid January and as you can probably tell we are neighbors.
First of all, you have so many wonderful and wise people helping you...you are truly blessed. I'm so impressed with all of you. This place really is a lifesaver.
I really haven't taken the time to do much posting, mostly just observing but for whatever reason I feel compelled to give my 2 cents regarding your recent interactions with your W.
All I can say is from my perspective you can show her more respect in answering her texts as others have suggested. This is yet another chance for you to show her the new Denver and I'm afraid you may be missing the boat a bit.
If nothing else it is a chance to show her you are the bigger person and perhaps make her think a little. Everyone deserves that courtesy even if it is not mutual. I know I am always more comfortable in my own skin when I rise above my W's antics.
