Sounds like a GREAT evening! Again, I will say...the apple doesn't fall far from the tree! So glad you got to spend the time with your daughter!
With regard to the email.... She is so trying to start a little fuss with you! Maybe you should just ignore that remark altogether. Or, if you do answer it, just say you were wondering when she would be getting her things so you could accommodate...by being there to help or not there (if that is what she prefers), etc. Whatever you do, don't remark with snarkiness. Not worth it.
