Wife no longer in love with me

[Truegritter]

but f ck that if I am going to sit here and just be told how much I wasn't the ideal husband she always dreamed of.

Ah yes I know this feeling.

And you do to because it is what most people will do.

I hope Jack 3 beans doesn't mind me borrowing this:

Turn the other cheek.

Not because or out of weekness

Because

You are not ready to let someone break you.

"Is that all you got?"

"Is this the hill you're going to die on?"

There is a certain peace I will tell you by doing this on your own terms.

It is NOT peaceful getting there though. It is the hardest thing (maybe) you will ever endeavor to do.

But in my mind it is over for now and not for good ....yet

ok that is more like it.

It ain't over until YOU decide it is.

I am not talking at all about W.

YOU

YOU control when you say its over.

And THAT is when YOU are ready to say it. Or better yet live it.