Thanks TG.
It is just a shite way to handle things. And believe me, I know she will do this again. She has done it all her life - every time something gets tough in her life she just walks away. F ck I wasn't the worst husband, I never cheated, hit her, drank heavily, abused her etc....and she has made me feel like crap.
I can control my response, my actions and my position and my life. At the moment she is leading and instigating everything and I've had enough. yes I still love her and yes I want to be her husband, but f ck that if I am going to sit here and just be told how much I wasn't the ideal husband she always dreamed of.
I am not going to respond to her, I am not going to contact her, I am going to just ignore it and ignore the legal stuff for now. My work is sending me overseas for two weeks next week anyway, so I won't be around to deal with it.
I have booked a trip interstate with some mates this weekend to GAL and get away from this shite.
It is not over for me, it may be for her. But in my mind it is over for now and not for good ....yet


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011