Wife no longer in love with me

[Truegritter]

Cam I am sorry you got that letter.

That is just bullshirt.

That is someone who is really going to have a tough time in life. She will repeat this with the next person you can bet on that.

I don't say that out of spite. It is sad really that she places such low worth on herself to come and go from a relationship this way.

She is making you the cause but really it is her own unworthiness that is driving this decision.

Make no mistake and don't listen to it. Listen only, what I have said to you before, what stings for you.

Now

She is making a choice for you?

When the way looks bleek and there is no hope, what will cam do? What does cam want? What does cam control?

I am not telling you can save your M by your choice. Your W has the right to get a D if she wants one.

But you damn sure can say to yourself I am not going to let someone make that choice for me.

I will make it.

When I am ready.

Is that when your W says it so?

Or you?

I was ready to stop all contact and ignore her, but what's that going to do now. I won't respond to this letter.
I just feel beaten again, I can't take a trick. How did I marry someone so messed up that can walk away from a marriage so easily?

I just can't accept this cam.

You sound like someone kicked you in the jimmy and you're ready to give in.

Man whatever... don't go out like this.

It ain't what happens it's how you handle it. Your courage. Your resolve. Your beliefs. Your values.

Don't let someone's choices break down who you are.

So

What does cam believe? What does cam want?

I promise you following this path you will walk away (if that is the outcome) on YOUR terms.

And THAT will make all the difference.