it's not as if you have done this DB thing consistently.
But, I also think she has to fear losing you for her to move towards you...
and yet, she has to trust you enough to want to come back.
So your changes must remain evident.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016