It really is a tough decision. I've got a new life now. She's off doing her own thing with the other guy and thinking of wanting to come back at the same time. Which really makes no sense to me. Of course as has been mentioned bi polar what kind of sense can be made. Regardless of what kind of feelings there are right now my goal is to just keep focusing on moving forward. I can't put my life on hold while she is with someone else while trying to decide what she wants.