SC, I came here to thank you for posting about the Drama Triangle over in Rue's thread. I didn't want to jack it.

I know exactly how you feel about this being thrust upon you. STBX said "I made this decision live with it" during her bombing run. It was her attempt to become the persecutor and cast me as the victim.

I will not play. I refuse to be the victim. I am not certain what I feel toward her but since reading several articles about the drama triangle and decideing not to participate it is akin to pity.

Thank You.

BITS
Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill