Originally Posted By: Country_Song
Denver, have you thought about what you need from her for you to give the M another shot?


I have CS.

1. Clear statement of commitment and desire to work on M.
2. Some clear action showing true commitment to work on M.
3. Willingness to begin MC.
4. Willingness to sign up for and go to Retrovaille.
5. No contact with OM.
6. Show me how she is going to accomplish no contact with OM.
7. Some sort of transparency plan for both of us until trust is reestablished.


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce