Btw Kat, she will never sit with me at work...because her job entails taking lunch and breaks with her client so that she doesn't run away! There is virtually no opportunity to spend time with her except the way we are doing it. The picnic was a godsend, it was a one time event that allowed us to spend a whole chunk of time together (and apparently everybody else knew it too!). So now if the boss gets on my case that would be a real piss off. I have to do hit and runs as it is and my friend knows that I'm going out of my way when I come to visit with her.