And now my lawyer has just rung to say she has received another follow up letter from my W's lawyer wanting to start discussions.

I can't take a trick here......it's just one thing after another. Man, I'm sick of this!

M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011