I too neglected myself. If i didn't need it, i didn't buy it. I also went shopping for a brand new wardrobe because i had lost 40 lbs. NEED IT! Made me feel better. I don't go overboard but i do spoil myself here and there. Restaurant night with the kids, activities, hicking is one of our favorite activity and provincial parks are the best,inexpensive and patroled in case of emerg. This year, i bought a trailer at a camp ground close to where we live. We go there often as our get away. LOVE IT!